Overcoming the myth; there is one special person God has for me.

This is one basic myth today with many persons out there. Let this be clear, it is not in the Bible as far as I have read that there is that;

• Mr. Right or
• Mrs. Right or
• Mr. Perfect

specifically made for you. There are thousands, if not millions of persons that is compatible with the characters, values, attributes you seek and the things you desire in a spouse.

So basically if you think you married that someone God has made specifically for you, or you're about marrying that someone you think God has made specifically for you, then you better rethink again. Don't feel irritated or stupid when you see someone who possesses the exact qualities and values you desire while you're already in marriage, even better than your spouse.

The Question is "what do you now do"?

The first thing that mostly comes to mind is this;

"Have I made the right decision marrying this person I got married to".

"Why is there this feeling even when I am married".

The truth is this, don't bite yourself over it. The question is 

"Will you leave your spouse for that person and restart the journey of Holy Matrimony once again?". 

If you aren't married yet, then there is still hope. But for the married couple it is totally against the laws of God. God values marriage that is why it's  very sacred before his sight, because it's a convenant between man and God at (God's) altar.

Genesis 2:24 says "Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh" (KJV). 

Look at the word one flesh. It didn't say two flesh, so whomever you have chosen to marry should be made by your decision and commitment to the end, because you will definitely see persons that are always better than whomever you have chosen to spend the rest of your life with. 

So let nobody force you into marrying because they feel that's the one God has made specially for you, meanwhile deep down in your heart you know you're doing the wrong thing. God has the best of your interest at heart, please be guided.