Knowing Mr. Right and Mr. Right Now.

 This is a very common topic, with so many answers by various persons, blogs, forums and many more. But we hope you open your heart to see this write up beyond what you've seen, heard, or listened to before. Pray the Holy Spirit directs our Hearts right. 

First, let's draw the similarities from the above topic; Mr. Right and Mr. Right Now.

The similarity;

The similarity is, they both involve the word "right". So these set of persons are both right (in essence, compatible, complementary, possess characters of interest and likeness).

Now The difference;

"Now" is the difference. So it is possible to see the right person and he might not be really what you need currently at the moment, or you might be ready but your Mr Right is not yet ready to be Mr. Right Now.

So what do you do?

Since it's the difference that separates this two, then it will be best if the difference is tackled, right here on this blog.

So let's ride, and we hope you tag along.....

Here is Mr. Right, he posses the values and character you need in a man, but Mr. Right doesn't seem to be ready to take that road that leads to commitment (marriage) just yet. 

Not because he doesn't like you. No it's just that he hasn't really pictured himself getting married just yet ( to you or anybody else). So you're not the fault, stop feeling there is something wrong with you. Well not in this aspect, though there can be some aspect when you're actually at fault. But that is a discussion for another post.

Back to the question, What do you do to get Mr. Right Now?

Do you wait for Mr. Right to be ready to become Mr. Right Now?

Or should you push him to be the Mr. Right Now you want him to be?

Well we'll never know.......

But not to worry, we've got you all covered. Let's clear the first doubt, Mr. Right will always be Mr. Right. There is nothing you can do to change Mr. Right to Mr. Right Now, especially if he is not ready to keep to commitment. 

So the solution is, move over from Mr. Right to your Mr. Right Now. But another question is, how?

Remember he is just Mr. Right, and the fact something is right doesn't it actually mean it's actually good or healthy for you.

Another thing to know is, you don't just move over just like that. Sometimes you ladies lack patience. All your Mr. Right might actually need is some time. Please be understanding. But when the time is becoming like forever (8 - 13 years) as the case may be or even more, then the above solution is applicable.

Let's talk more about Mr. Right Now. He is the one any responsible lady will always want to look out for. A guy who doesn't wastes time, he knows what he wants and he goes for it.

Note: Every Mr. Right Now was once a Mr. Right.

I mean...... you don't just grow up in one day. It takes process. But let's also establish the fact that, Mr. Right can pretend to be your Mr. Right Now, especially when he perceives you're about moving on with your life without him.

But how do you discern this?

Commitment is all it takes. Mr. Right Now isn't scared of commitment. But you see the fake Mr. Right Now, he's scared of taking the road that leads to commitment (marriage). 

He's a scam, he's like mehn........

Also to note, there are things guys can't pretend about, and marrying a lady who they aren't in love with is one of them. Even if you have the money as a lady, he'll enjoy it with you, but still there is a very high probability he won't end up with you.

Guys are not externally motivated, unlike the ladies. If a guy doesn't like you, he doesn't like you. 

To get the full gist on the above ⬆️, check out this video on youtube by Pastor Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo "7 mistakes single ladies make". Thank you so much ma for the wonderful talk. It is truly appreciated. 

In conclusion, in spotting Mr. Right Now, commitment is one deal setter. Mr. Right Now will stay through the course, because he is real!....