There Are Still Virgins. (Do not let them deceive you).

 Recently, I had a conversation with a friend of mine and it turned out that, it just happened we were discussing on how marriages of this generation will be like, especially with the alarming rate at which ladies are losing their virginity for irrelevant things like ice cream, money, shoes, and bags etc.

He was kind of scared and so was I, most especially with the alarming news in our locality every day. There was even a very young beautiful lady who we saw on a particular sunny morning, later that evening we heard she just lost her virginity. Just like that!

We were like to who?, to which useless guy?

Whoa!!! It was very touching, heartbreaking, but more for this friend of mine, because he happens to know this young girl very well.

Now with the recent statistics, the ratio of virgins to non-virgins will whoa you! The non-virgins are becoming more rampart than the virgins.

#Shocked!!!!!

The same friend of mine, we also had a chat recently. And he was like (him explaining to me) there was this particular girl whom we both knew, she was preparing to enter into the University or College,  and she was saying a loud "I'm not a virgin anymore, in fact she went ahead and claimed that she and her friends weren't virgins anymore, and that if he (my friend) hope to marry a girl who is a virgin someday, it is impossible. It was shocking. 

And knowing this girl, she isn't the kind of girl with two or three friends. No......she was like a leader amongst battalions of friends. So imagine that size of all non-virgins?

We're not trying to scare you, neither am I. But we're creating an awareness for you ladies (especially for the virgins), for a better future. The guys aren't excluded too. 

A time is coming when there is going to be a great urge to lose your virginity, because the negative minded persons in the society would have gradually begun to show their true intents. And leaving in such a society will require steady guidance, wisdom and its application which only comes from the Holy Spirit, otherwise remaining a virgin won't be that easy.

Not to loose courage, believe it or not, there are people still getting married today with both partners virgins. It is no joke.

Do not allow them deceive you. Even when they call you names for being a virgin or keeping your virginity, be happy, because it's for a good course. 1 Peter 3:14 says "But even if you suffer for doing what is right, God will reward you for it. So don't worry or be afraid of their threats" (NLT). 

You are not alone in this fight. God your Heavenly Father is with you, and we your brothers and sisters in faith are also with you.

See these people as those who are jealous. They do not have the power of going back to becoming virgins. Once you've lost it, you've lost it. But yours is different because you're still a virgin. You have the power to choose to become a virgin or the other way (non-virgin). But please choose right. So it is hurting them (#pepper them.......)

Remain in your virginity, do not allow one useless fellow to deceive you, because at the end of the day, you'll be glad you kept yourself for marriage.

We're not saying, Marriage should be the only thing that should keep your virginity. No it shouldn't. You need to have the fear of God first, because if it is marriage, trust me you won't remain faithful till the end especially if your spouse isn't doing the things you had expected him/her to do. This could even lead to masturbation on your part, due to lack of enough sexual pleasure as you have imagined.

Here is a link on one of our earliest post on masturbation.........

https://itzlovemeleaveme.blogspot.com/2020/07/the-spirit-of-masturbation.html

Do not allow the current trend in the society deceive you into thinking the fact that, being a virgin is a crime or it is only babies that keep their virginity for marriage. Yes you're a baby, in fact you're your mom's baby, you're your dad's baby girl. Leave it like that.

Remember it was a Virgin Mary that gave birth to our Lord Jesus Christ, that we all Christian's are all celebrating today, "the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ".The Bible categorically specified it in Matthew 1:18, Luke 1:27 " a virgin named Mary..........."

If virginity didn't matter, then it shouldn't have been a virgin? 

Think, be wise and smart.