Why Go Ahead?

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So for today series, it's going to be a combo. Like one upload after the other. The write ups for today will blow your mind, and it will be worth spending your time and effort on.

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Without wasting much time, let's head back to today's topic; "you know and you still go ahead".

This topic, came from one of our early survey, which we conducted on some of the reasons why most ladies have been into several breakups ( probably 6-7) and are still making the same mistakes over and over again. 

And then we asked; "you know, and you still go ahead"?

It has been observed that ladies from the onset of most relationship they find themselves, are very much aware of the fact that the relationship isn't going to work. They know from the onset if this particular relationship is going to lead to a breakup or marriage.

They know, but they still go ahead!!!

Reasons arises for this mentality. And the very first one is;

Loneliness; most ladies do not want to feel lonely, they just want to fill that vacuum of emptiness, especially if her other female folks are all in a relationship. There is a high tendency that, she's going to feel left out, and even when the red flags are glaring (signs telling her this guy isn't the right one), she will still go ahead. After all I have a boyfriend of my own.

Peer pressure is another reason. There are ladies who aren't up to the age of even thinking of starting a relationship, but because of her peer influence she is forced to do it anyway. If you've been in this situation before, you'll know that decisions are worst made when in coerce conditions. This usually happens as a result of conflict in self identity. 

The Benefits; this was kind of funny, when the result of the survey came out. I kid you not when I tell you that, there are actually a lot of ladies who are in a relationship or several relationships because of the benefits they derive such as sex, money, influence and many more from the guy.

They know very well the relationship isn't going anywhere, they are very aware of it. But they are comfortable with it because of what it offers.

These set of ladies aren't ready for a serious relationship just yet, and I doubt if they will ever be. All they are after is what you can offer as the guy. Please guys be wise. (Have sense oh..... as we Nigerians will commonly say).

Well these are the three we'll be taking for today (you can also add yours too). Believe me there are more, but we'll just work with this three. Feel free to drop your comments on the comment section below. You can also subscribe, with the subscribe section just above each new post.