Attention in Relationships!

 "Just the same way your obedience and loyalty is important to God, so is your attention important to your lady (woman)".

Lets admit it, we both need attention in our respective relationships (male and female), but the ladies own much of this aspect.

The attention isn't based on quantity (how often you're with this lady) but on quality (how your present was important, how your presence was greatly felt). You can be with your lady everytime, but still not give her the attention she needs. 

Your attention towards her shouldn't just be about being there, rather it should be about being there at the right and with the right consciousness of mind.

You can be there physically and your mind isn't. There are cases where a lady and a guy are having a conversation (mostly in the movies), and the lady ask the guy a question based on the conversation she thinks they were having, and you see that the guy is lost (because he can't give a reply). Sometimes the lady has to flip her fingers to get his attention back or worst pinch him (Naija babes).

And probably they've been having this conversation for several hours. Let us tell you something, Your attention towards her (your lady) is like the fuel that keeps the relationship alive.

Once you lose your sense of attention towards her, she loses her sense of attraction towards you (that is she feels she no longer attracts you for you not to give her the attention she needs, most importantly your attention).

For the guys, I know it can be hard sometimes trying to fill in the gap accompanied with other issues of life. But please let's make it right, by giving them (our ladies) the attention they deserve.

To be sincere for every responsible lady out there, you deserve the best.