Love Wins No Trophy.

 It is indeed funny to still see some persons today who still see genuine love as a prize to be won. 

They've refuse to appreciate genuine love even when it hits them on the face.

Love to them is all about getting what they need at;

• Their timing,
• Their own pace,
• And according to their demands.

This is common to both gender (male and female). Though we are not here to argue who does it more, but we're here to discuss the issue from both corners (Male and female).

First of all, "you don't win love, you earn love." (An exception to this is the love our Heavenly Father have towards us his children, because we don't deserve it, and we didn't earn it either. Romans 5:8).

It (genuine love) doesn't come that easy, in fact genuine love is not hard to find but the process difficult to align.

"You cannot find genuine love, if you aren't genuine." Even when you find it, it won't last in your hands because you lack the true values to keep it.

Like it was earlier stated above, finding genuine love is not the problem, but aligning to the patterns and process of finding this genuine love is! Can you stay through to the end?

For clarity let's break it down;

• You want to find genuine love, are your intentions right? Is it for a dubious purpose?
• You want to find genuine love, are you ready to be genuine in everything? No fake, no lies?

Genuine love can be found in couples celebrating 30 years of marriage anniversary, 50 years, 20 years of marriage anniversary. Mark our words, not wedding anniversary, but marriage anniversary! That is staying through the course of the journey whether it is sweet, sour or bitter you remain.

The road that leads to genuine love sometimes will look rough, untidy, annoying but it's a process you must follow if you're looking for genuine affection.

Some persons will assume genuine love to be something that a person portrays, a thing he/she likes in you and all that..... well that's just the beginning.

It becomes tough when it is to be manifested, not just saying it by words.

"Your husband wrongs you and still you're to apologise first even when it is glaring that you weren't wrong. Can you still love him? Will you sacrifice the peace of your home to win an arguement with your husband on who is right or wrong?

"Your girlfriend hurts you so badly (probably cheated on you) and she ask for your forgiveness. Can you still forgive her?

Genuine love takes two dedicated persons to stay through the whole process, and when they come out of it (the process) its refined.

The lack of genuine love today is one of the things that has made distance relationship difficult.

Love that wins no trophy isn't concerned about the; 

• Benefits, 
• The riches, 
• The prestige, 
• The fame and all of that. 

Don't forget the trophy we're referring to is the earthly possessions with a few mentioned above.