Not Everyone is destined to marry!

 Hmmm! How true is this you may think?

Not everyone is destined to marry, but how! Why!

As cranky as this sound it is very true that not everyone is destined to marry.

Some persons are actually pursuing a course that isn't meant for them relationship wise, and the earlier they know the better for them and the people surrounding them.

Living amongst friends who are confuse doesn't make you any different. You're all the same, confused no matter how intelligent you might have been, there is going to be an evidence of confusion.

Proverbs 27:17 ". . . . Iron sharpenteth iron".

Looking at the above topic, it seem kind of quirky. Like you mean not everyone is destined to marry? Then what is this person doing in this world after all if marriage isn't part of his/her destiny?

In fact in one of Apostle's Paul message to the Corinthians he said in 1Cor.7.7 I wish everyone could get along without marrying, just as I do. But we are not all the same. God gives some the gift of marriage, and to others he gives the gift of singleness. (NLT)

This isn't as bad as you're making it sound. Apostle Paul wasn't married, John the Baptist wasn't married too. And I know you'll say in those days there weren't as pretty ladies as there are now!

That's not an excuse, are there not Reverend Fathers and Sisters in today's generation? So these are all excuses depending on how you look at temptation. 

For a person like Jesus Christ he didn't have the luxury of time for dating, or to be in a relationship with any lady as at of the time when is calling was to die at a very young age for the sins of man. . . . Who was going to marry a man and only to discover after few years of marriage he was meant to die for the sake of man?

If the woman discovered that, she would have thwarted the purpose and vision of our Lord Jesus Christ. 

And besides, what makes you think there weren't pretty ladies, hot damsels with the full package (boobs, hips, the figure. . . . .) just name it. There were.

Come to think of it, Jesus Christ was a celebrity, a young handsome man with the beards, the physique who could heal the sick, raise the dead, make the lame to work, restore sanity to the psychopath, filled with so much wisdom (you could see that in the way he always answered the questions of the Pharisees and the Scribes). 

Do you for once think that no lady will want that kind of man? Or do you think any lady will see this man and will not intend dating him? Which lady wouldn't want to have a relationship with a perfect being? Well I don't think there is!

But Jesus Christ understood purpose. Did he feel the pressure and all those adrenaline and hormones gushing. . . . YES he did. Remember he was God in human form, so he felt everything that we humans felt, but the difference between him (Jesus Christ), and us is, he overcame all of it (the temptations), so we need his help to overcome ours!

So if you're complaining that ladies are so enticing, that you can't concentrate anymore, then you're lying. Agreed ladies are indeed enticing, but should they make you lose focus, absolutely NO.

Walk with your Creator and he will teach you the way. He knows the ending from the beginning. Just remain calm and obedient in his arms and you will never regret it. When you're life is in order according to God's purpose, you see the topic up there, it won't scare you because you've found true purpose. And even when the woman comes eventually, it's an advantage to your spiritual investment with your Creator.

Ladies are fond of this. Marriage isn't bad in anyway, but seeing marriage as the successful to your success is a problem. Imagine having this kind of mindset, how will your life turn out when your life doesn't take the shape you wanted it to be (marriage wise)?

It's very okay to get married oh, but if it's not your destiny, believe me you'll prefer a life where you were once a single than a life of marriage.

Please be guided. We're not saying you shouldn't marry oh, all we are saying is, don't have the mindset of, without marriage your life isn't complete, without marriage you cannot be successful, without marriage you can't have peace.

All these things can be found in just only one person, and that's Jesus Christ. If marriage was actually where people found fulfillment, then why are there still couples divorcing today? Why are there still broken marriages today?

We aren't saying you can't make it right in marriage, of course you can. But just so you know, true fulfillment comes only from the Master Jesus Christ