Love With No Trust!

 Funny as this sounds, we have actually seen guys in a relationship with this beautiful and talented young lady, and they (the guys) still don't trust this lady well enough. They claim to it is love, "Oh. . . I'm in love with this lady, We're both in love!

There is no relationship without trust, neither is there love without trust. Trust will always come first before love.

So we don't see how you can love a person (guy or lady) without trusting this person.

To be very honest and practical, to trust a person completely isn't easy. We mean some persons can't fully trust themselves completely nonetheless another person. It isn't easy, especially if this lady or guy has messed up big time in the past. There is this feeling of doubt that will definitely cross the mind, as to whether this person has really changed.

Thoughts like "Are you sure she isn't gonna go back to her old bad habits?, "Has he really changed? This is just the human nature.

And also if it ever occurs to you, why do a police department always check out on a one-time criminal, after releasing him/her to how he/she is fairing in life, to check if he's become an important citizen in his society or a nuisance or is still a criminal. 

It's simple, there is always an element of doubt to actually ascertain if this person has really changed. Like we earlier stated, it's the human nature. Here is a song we recommend you listen to, or you could possibly download it too. "Human Condition by Unspoken".

But still the emphasis is, you can't possibly love someone without trusting this person. Yes it is costly to fully trust a person (a human in particular), but this is the sacrifice to be paid for genuine love.

It's like saying, "I'm giving you the liberty into my life (space), though I'm not sure you'll do the same, but I'm doing it anyway".

And if you do it right (that is with the Holy Spirit), it will be the best decision you'll ever make, but in another way it can turn out the way you least expected. 

From this very point we draw a vital mark, "you can't go on the process of fully trusting someone without the Holy Spirit. Though it may take guts on the part of the individual, but the Holy Spirit cannot be removed from the big picture. The Holy Spirit cannot be pushed to the corner, don't ever side line the Holy Spirit out of the main process. 

It is only with the help of the Holy Spirit that you can trust and still love, because he is a Helper sent to us by our Heavenly Father. 

Please never neglect the Holy Spirit in your pursuit of a life partner and also in all spheres of life.

The Holy Spirit can be easily accessed the moment you accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Personal Saviour, then God sends the Holy Spirit to comfort you, guide you through every storm and temptation in life. 

Take a few minutes to accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Personal Saviour if you haven't by saying this few lines below;

Lord Jesus Christ,  I accept you into my heart as my Lord and Personal Saviour. I believe you died on the cross of Calvary for my sins, I believe you rose again on the third day and I ask you to be the Lord over my life and everything I own. Amen. (WELCOME TO THE FAMILY OF CHRIST).

Also learn to always engage the Holy Spirit. Ask him questions you're having doubt about, ask him questions you seek answers and he will never deny you his assistance. All it requires is for you to;

• To ask,
• To seek,
• To be patient and
• Listen carefully. 

Remember the Holy Spirit always speaks.