My Girlfriend doesn't find me attractive, why?

 Quickly let's reason through this post together. 

There are many things that makes a guy unattractive or less attractive to a lady and we summarised it into three categories, which could be your;

• Attitude,
• Lifestyle 
• Or probably her attitude towards you changing.

So which one of these do you belong? Or are you just one or both?

Your attitude and lifestyle isn't much of a big deal, because that's you. If you can figure it's you who has the problem, then it's a problem half solved. 

Let's briefly list a thing or two on Attitude and Lifestyle that ruins your attractiveness. 

1. Are you always looking unkempt?
2. Do you have a low self-esteem?
3. What qualities makes you stand out from other men?
4. Is there something about you that makes you look you?
5. Why should she choose you?
6. How have you been treating her lately?
7. Do you complain more and appreciate less?

These are little things to watch out for. . . . Most times we aren't aware of these things as guys or as men. But these are the little things that the ladies really catches fast.

   

       Her attitude changing towards you! Well there is nothing much you can do here.

Most of the times it is people's mindset that changes about us, and not we changing (that is, not the other way round - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo 

She wakes up one morning and what she says next is "I don't think this thing can work", "Let's take a break to see how it goes", "Just give me space".

And you're like we've been 3 years, 4 years etc. in this relationship why now after so many years of emotional investment, time and effort?

The red flags was always there from the beginning of the relationship as we stated in one of our popular post. Here is the link!

https://itzlovemeleaveme.blogspot.com/2021/06/watch-red-flags.html

The advice is what? Nope, don't fix what is already broken and neither can you fix what is already broken. Only God Almighty is an exception. 

You can't fix what is already broken. Only God Almighty is an exception - Oghosasere Osatohanmwen.

Remember it's a relationship and not marriage after all. So leave the relationship, though it isn't going to be easy, it's going to break and drain you emotionally, physically and even mentally. But its wise you do it now, than regret it in marriage.

But if it is a problem that can be fixed or solved then don't hesitate. But this is very rare, because she's already fed up in the relationship. 

A stitch in time saves nine - Prime Minister Boris Johnson