There Is A Right Timing!

 There are seasons and times for everything under the Heavens says the Bible. (Bible reference: Ecclesiastes 3:1).

      Indeed there is a right timing for everything, but are we patient enough to wait for that timing? Are we faithful enough to trust that timing?

In every of life endeavour, it has always been in our habit as humans that whenever we need something we ensure we get it as soon as possible forgetting that sometimes it doesn't always work that way. It doesn't just happen the way we expect it to be and relationships are no exemption.

      What are we meant to do when such happens? Should we still keep hoping? Should we still keep fighting for love? Should we still keep holding on?

Sometimes we over stress ourselves over things, especially when they don't take the form we expected it to take, the way we anticipated it to be. Then are we wrong for having this thought? Of course not. We are humans and we all go through various of life's phases. 

     But the good news is, there is a right timing. Now the problem isn't about whether there is a right timing or not, but waiting for that right timing.

Paraphrasing what Jay Shetty said; "we humans are programmed to have things as quickly as possible. That's why you see most online platforms carrying "7 days workout", "6 steps to make your marriage work", "7 key steps to make your relationship romantic".

We don't like the process of waiting for the right things to locate us at the right timing. I'm not excluded from this either (though I'm getting over it). We want things immediately done in our way.

Nonetheless there are reasons somethings aren't given to us immediately. Not that it won't come, definitely it will, but we need the waiting spirit. 

At certain levels in life we need to be taught the importance of waiting the right way (mentally, emotionally, psychologically, and most importantly spiritually).

    The more it takes for it to be delivered to you, the more goodies it will definitely bring along.

Kimberley Fosu wrote;

"Want something too much and you push it away". She also wrote "You get extra when you wait".

She further gave this illustration:

"When you go into a restaurant and you place your order, you relax knowing your order is coming. You don't go crazy waiting for your food to come. You sit back and sip on your water while you wait.

Yes, sometimes the food takes too long. Sometimes the order gets mixed up and that sucks! But what typically happens when the food is too late? The waitress comes and says they will give you something else in addition to your order and it's on the house. They give you extra.

That's what happens when you place your order with the universe. Sometimes it arrives quickly but other times it's late but you always get extra.

You get extra love, extra care, extra joy. When it takes forever, you get forever. You get happily ever after".