Emotions! I'm Bored In My Relationship! I'm Bored In My Marriage!

 We all feel tired at certain point in life especially when we get too used to a particular thing, a particular person. We tend to have little value for it, we tend to disregard that thing because we have it in excess or we probably have been seeing it over and over again.

Relationships or marriage isn't much of a difference either. At some point you feel tired, you don't feel love for this person, you feel like ending the relationship for no justifiable reason, you don't feel like dating this person anymore and it seems you're insane because this is like the fifth person you're going to break up with in six months. Well are you insane really? Definitely not.

We get you, you're not alone (1 Peter 5:9). But there is a difference between genuinely loving someone and just love.

Love is synonymous to both expressions, but proving what is meant by love becomes the genuineness of being in love.

You can be in love and fall out of love anytime, because they're emotions.

"Emotions are real, but they're not always right"_ Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo. 

So you may feel the need to cheat on your wife, but does that make it right? You may feel the need to divorce your wife because you don't feel you love her, but does that really mean you don't?

     Our emotions are feelings that are fickle and so acting in accordance to how we always feel becomes a catastrophe.

"Your emotions is the fuel that propels you forward only when you have a God's given direction"_ Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo.

Loving unconditionally;

There are moments you won't feel like loving your spouse, loving your partner but you have to. This is what makes marriage a selfless act.

"Marriage is a selfless act"_ Pastor Mildred Okonkwo.

"It is easier to act your way into feeling, than to feel your way into acting"_ Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo. 

What this means is, you may not feel like it presently, but just do it anyways and in the course of doing it, the feeling will come than waiting for the feeling to come before actually doing it.

Please be wise. Like it was earlier stated, your emotions are fickle and so don't make a permanent decision based on a temporary feeling.