Create That Environment!

There are guys who possibly could have approached you as a lady, but they just find it difficult to. Yeah, we are guys and we are suppose to call the shots, we are suppose to initiate the first move, the first conversation, but not all guys belongs to this category. Some of us are a little bit shy and introverts and so initiating a conversation with you isn't going to be that easy.

Having a conversation with you as a lady with so many friends around isn't going to help either. Even when it's just you as a lady, you still need to create that environment that can ease our conversation with you.

"A smile can do", "A little politeness in your tune can suffice" and not "Hi" and you reply "Yes, What can I do for you? It turns off the guy's approach almost immediately. He might probably reply "I wasn't talking yo you" to be on a safer side.

      Yeah, you might possibly not be interested in him, but still be polite in your conversation. It sure took a lot of effort walking up to you for a shy guy.