The Friend-zone

 Every successful marriage today once began from a successful friendship and that friendship became the foundation for that marriage.

     Not every friendship is met to end up in marriage. Having this mindset will help a lot with issues pertaining to the friend-zone.

What is the Friend-zone?

     Often we hear guys say "she just friend-zoned me". Listen, whatever space you occupy in a person's heart, you must have earned in one way or the other. It didn't happen all at once, it sure took some time.

This same illustration applies to asking a lady out on a date, a relationship or wooing a lady. It won't just happen automatically. You need to earn whatever time, space, that lady is giving you and basically don't expect much if you're just starting off.

     You don't entertain strangers anyhow, it's not just done. She has to be certain of her own will of whom she's giving a YES to.

So you might find yourself in the Friend-zone as a guy just getting to know a lady. Don't be too hard on yourself. If it persist for a longer period, which we can't really say how long depending on what you call "how long", then probably she has someone else in mind, or it could also be she hasn't thought of you aside being regular friends. 

In anyways whether she agrees or not, there is no need to be angered.

If you're looking forward to surpassing the Friend-zone stage, then there is no one particular step to take. All we can say is, start from being good friends, from there you can both know if you want something more out of that friendship and then it can go further. 

Yeah, it's indeed very lovely to discover the lady you love, is in synchrony with you (has the same affection for you). But if it's not the case, I kid you not it isn't going to be easy moving on, but hey there is always a better tomorrow. 

"You don't hope for what you already have".