Waiting the right way!

 Waiting hasn't been easy in any way, especially in a world where results are more appreciated than the process. This same applies to individuals, in this regard in a relationship context.

There is waiting and there is waiting the right way! The right way is what differentiates these two.

                Image by Zhu Liang (unsplash.com).

We all have emotions and feelings, and they are there for a reason best known to our Creator, God. But if these emotions and feelings aren't handled properly, we make a mess of ourselves.

Let's drift a little further with an example.

Being pregnant before marriage is immoral before Man, Ethics and most importantly before God. But in another scenario, pregnancy in marriage is considered a blessing from God. It is the gift of God to man and his wife (Psalm 127:3).

What do you observe from the above situation?

They both involve pregnancy, but one is before marriage and the other is in marriage. The second scenario has more glamour, respect and decency.

Same it is with waiting the right way. As you grow in life, you'll witness changes in your feelings, lifestyle and waiting the right way becomes quite different and difficult.

Before embarking on anything out of rush, ask yourself these questions?

Is this what I want?

Would I rather have this and forfeit that?

Would I rather be here instead of being there?

What are my chances?