Why do people break up?

 Occasionally we hear people say "I just broke up with him last night! " Mehn he was a pain in the ass, so I had to call it off!

But the fact remains, "Why do we break up? 

Well if you aren't in a relationship, then this doesn't require your answer, though you can learn a thing or two about why people break up and not experience that yourself.

1. They got tired of the relationship; certain persons feel tired in relationships. It tired for them to see the same person over and over again. It's boring and so they feel they need a new partner.

2. They made a permanent decision based on a temporary feeling; the first time they met, they felt they could feel something and so just dived in right into it, only to discover in the long run, there wasn't anything they shared or had in common. More arguments than happy moments. And they're left hopeless to feel " How did I get into this mess?

Next time, it's best you learn to be more patient by not allowing your emotions to cloud your judgement.

3. Being an option; nobody wants to be anybody's second best. It's either we're in or not. Discovering you're someone else's second option can only send one message "you will always be an option". This usually gets messing along the way when the partners involved discover they were an option from the beginning.

4. They committed too early; dating is not bad, but committing too early sometimes can be detrimental to your growth emotionally and mentally. 

Your decisions 5 years ago are bound to change 2 years from now. We evolve and sometimes we evolve past so many things including people.

5. A cheating partner; by statistics this far holds the major ground for why people even couples break up. Hardly would you see anyone remain in a relationship with a cheating partner. It's quite simple, " if we are dating and he's or she's cheating, then what can be guaranteed when we make it official (by getting married)?

6. Sentimental judgement; the thought we can change a person's bad habit despite the fact it can't be worked on.

Here is a link to "Watch the red flags" below

https://itzlovemeleaveme.blogspot.com/2021/06/watch-red-flags.html

7. Not meeting up financially; is a major concern in countries where poverty is common. You don't need to expect much, because all that glitters for them is definitely gold. If you have it they come for you, if you don't then stay out of their lane.

There are more reasons, but we'd like to call it quit here.