In love with two ladies

 This is a subtopic to a post titled "Misplaced priority" the link comes below.

https://itzlovemeleaveme.blogspot.com/2022/04/what-is-your-misplaced-priority.html

Let's kickstart, loving two ladies! Have you ever been in such a situation before? Do you know someone who has or who is currently going through that phase? Well, it does occur in our everyday activities don't you think?

We most times decide on so many options like; choosing the dresses we're going to wear to work, the varieties of shoes that fit, the ties that fit, the heels that suit the colour of the necklace and earrings or even the head tie. It's a decision out of so many options, but we end up making a decision anyways right?

It's not much of a difference in these criteria. Yeah, nobody can possess all the characters, and so one lady has one and the other has the other. We like both because they carry something individually that we value in themselves. You can love two people at the same time, but you don't get to marry two people at the same wedding right?

Every individual occupies a different level of intimacy in our heart; and the ability to differentiate who is and who is not helps us in decisions.

We love people for so many reasons, but what matters most is "the why". And yes some ladies can possess characteristics we seek as a possible spouse.

One knows how to cook, and another is neat. But these two characters are a necessity we desire. Pick what you value more, well for me it's neatness. We can learn and we can improve. So with time, we can learn how to cook. 

Yeah, not everyone will want to grow, this should have been dealt with while you were still friends to know if she's someone that will gladly want to improve. So pick wisely and don't be confused.