What is your appetite?

 We all have an appetite for something, whether be it food, clothes, love, hate or even anger. Though the word appetite can be interchanged for example, instead of an appetite for clothes, it becomes "a flair for good clothes" not just clothes, instead of an appetite for love, it becomes "an emotion for love and so on".

For today, we'll be bringing to your awareness that there are 

• the correct and wrong appetites. 

And sometimes the wrong can be presented as though good and vice versa.

The wrong appetite of this post will be targeted to the relationship goals (the singles). It has always been our main focus on this blog, and it will always be. 

We have established that it is fundamental to know that an appetite could be wrong or good.

So we dive straight into our little talk.

1. An appetite for sex; sex in itself isn't a bad thing, but when the context comes into play, it becomes questionable. Having sex in marriage isn't wrong, as long as it is with your married partner. But on the other hand, outside the marriage institutions, it is. 

Are we then permitted to think about sex?

We are human beings, we think of sex. According to Men's Health staff, on average a lady thinks of sex 18.6 times per day. The guys aren't left out either. But what we do with the thinking becomes a subject of the question. Thinking of sex isn't bad, but how do you tackle your thinking? Are you resisting the urge or you're giving in to the urge (doing it anyway)?

2. An appetite to start a relationship (leading to marriage). It is not a wrong appetite, but it is certainly not a good appetite either considering your status quo?

If you want to date someone, are you ready financially, mentally, emotionally, psychologically and most importantly, spiritually? Because marriage is going to test you on all these and many more. It's not just the thought of starting, but more of the question of are you ready?

3. An appetite for a mental image of who I want to get married to; we daydream, we fantasize and it's quite alright to have all these. I mean life is no fun without all these little things in it. 

The slight problem might be, that your image isn't something feasible? Your image isn't that of what a human being can't meet up to? Like is it possible for any human being to possess all the specs you require? Is it impossible for the lady to meet up to the exact requirements? This will show you if you need to rearrange your thinking and see him/her for who they are. 

Reality is beautiful, depending on how you take it. You keep thinking of a girl with 

1. Hips

2. Curves.

3. Edges (boobs and butts)

4. Sexy

5. Pretty.

6. Good character.

7. Pinkish lips.

8. Averagely tall.

9. Fair in complexion.

10. Parents if of mixed race (Asian, black and American).

11. Noble family background

12. And the lady of a working class with a high-paying job

13. Outgoing lady

14. Fashion artist

15. Fone (For our international readers, it means a lady that forms with English)

Please it will be wise to come back to reality and love someone who meets the major attributes you need like good character, real values, God-fearing, dedication to working and what other things you think are needed for you.

Remember, none of the following above is a wrong appetite, but the context is what should be questioned!