When you're stuck!

 We can be stuck by many things. Sometimes it is what lies in the present and most of the time it is what lies in the past.

Now, what are the past, present and future? It's a series of events and we are the only thing that is constant throughout.

Let's highlight just three points here;

1. The past

The problem with being stuck is, the fact there is something in us that still wants to dwell on that event.

Being stuck is not the problem, but freeing yourself from being stuck is. Most often we are comfortable with the past and we feel too comfortable to forge ahead to conquer the future or even today.

It's quite okay to want to visit the past once in a while, but not be stuck there. We can't change whatever has happened whether for the best or worst, but we can still move forward despite the pains.

We know not everybody has had a great past. I for one, I didn't either, but I'm here, I'm living, I'm breathing. I'm sure indeed grateful to God Almighty for my wonderful today and the best future he has in store for me.

2. Uncertainty 

Another reason is uncertainty; what is the probability of getting the right one if I lose this one? The problem is you can't hold unto Ishmael while waiting for Isaac. If you're moving ahead, then you are, and if you're not you can't dabble in two places. Making up our minds about something can be a lot of drama to handle. In fact, currently, I'm caught up between two options. I wouldn't be saying the truth if I told you it was easy making a decision. For some people it is, but that will depend on how crucial that decision will change your life.

3. Fear

Closely related to uncertainty. Sometimes we just have to get out of our comfort zone. It is more convenient to remain at a particular spot but it sure isn't all there is. We can be more, we can be free to soar high if we just push a little. Well I know it isn't easy, but who said it was and who said it was impossible?