Toxic Relationships and a way out!

 How to get out of a toxic relationship?

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The very first fact is, that you already know it's a toxic relationship, so your problem is half solved. You recognize the fact, that this relationship is of no good. You recognize it isn't what you want to commit to anymore. You recognize you are tired of being lied to, of being a minor priority, of always feeling bad even when you shouldn't, of feeling pain when you shouldn't, feeling as a second option, never appreciated enough, always talked down.

You are more than what they call you. You are a rare gem, you are classy and you are elegant.

Getting out of a toxic relationship sometimes may not be so easy, because there is a false trick that makes us feel 

"What if we never find someone again? 

"What if they're the best we'll ever meet? 

"What are the chances of finding love again" 

Hence we often want to manage and just remain. That's why we often hear "Good people marry wrong" and "Nice people choose the wrong people to date". It's common and we get that. And sometimes we feel they're gonna change and hardly they don't.

But there is good news, you weren't made to manage, but to rule your world and dominate it.

Highlights on how to get out of a toxic relationship

1. The fact you know you're already in a toxic relationship is the first step.
2. Your awareness of knowing you deserve more.
3. Your level of self-esteem has drastically increased.
4. An awareness that you were made to be better and not static.
5. Seek professional help, could be a Counsellor and the like
6. Surround yourself with positivity (positive vibes).
7. Identify what triggers these reactions in you and seek ways to solve them.

Nonetheless, after all, that has been said and done, sometimes we can still be the toxins in our relationships, making them toxic. Examining the fact from both sides should never be underestimated.