How many dates does it take to know if there's real potential?

 How many dates does it take to know if there’s real potential? (eharmony.com)

This emerged as one of eharmony.com's most asked questions!

This situation is quite similar to looking for something you haven't seen with your eyes. Or looking for black socks in the dark! It ain't done. 

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Firstly don't be too concentrated on kicking off a relationship right after the first date or meet-up. Be more focused on how you connect. If you feel there is any at all? Timing is of the essence, and for some persons it is short and for others, it might take a while. You want to go slowly to ensure you are in on the right person in the right environment and you're not just wasting your time. Potentiality isn't written on the forehead. And sometimes the right click will not happen on the first few encounters and so basing your judgement on this prospect ain't going to work too well.

The statement below rightly summarises the whole thing;

The same amount of licks as it takes to get to the centre of a Tootsie Pop. There is no right answer to this question. This is going to depend a lot on your background with that person. If it's your first date and you just met them, you need more time. A great way to see if there is potential is by bringing the person you're dating around your friends and family. See how they act in multiple social settings_ Quoted".