The Question of Cohabitation?

 The question of cohabitation?

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What is cohabitation?

According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary: "to live together as or as if a married couple".

Another definition; is that exist together_ Merriam-Webster Dictionary. 

But we'll go with the first definition; "to live together as or as if a married couple".

"If" is the main highlight.
Definition of "if": "on the assumption that...
A probability that something will happen or not.

If you consider cohabitating, then you consider marriage first. Yeah, we may sound obsolete, but you don't cohabit until you're married and not when you're considering marriage. It's the marriage first or rather, being married first.

Cohabitation is not a time to test the waters of the relationship, nor is it a time to check if the relationship will work, to know if she has all the homely characters, just so you know!

Morals and values kick against cohabitating when you're not married and sure we back this up.

Looking at another definition of cohabitation: live together and have a sexual relationship.

We end this note with; if you're not married, then why live together? Because it's clear there is only one thing you're doing! Building a sexual appetite you can't handle! If the breakup was to result and you were already cohabitating before marriage, imagine such a scenario! Will it be pleasant? Imagine the shame! Will it be what you bargained for at the very beginning of the relationship? 

Keep your dignity and respect. The fact you chose to remain in your home and not cohabit doesn't make you less of an attractive lady!