How can I tell if he or she is the one?

 How can I tell if he or she is the one? (forbes.com)

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In our opinion, you must know who you are, before thinking of if he/she is the one! Only then can you know what you need as regards a partner. If you barely know yourself, then you can barely know what you want.

Concentrate first on discovering me! After the process of discovering me, you can be able to identify who will be compatible with the discovered me. It's that simple and hard. When you know who you are! What you want? Where you are headed in life! Then discovering if he/she is the one, is an already answer to the homework given as an example in class.

Here is a link below to common myths we were told from childhood! 

https://itzlovemeleaveme.blogspot.com/2020/07/overcoming-myth-there-is-one-special.html

Consider a quote also below;

I don't want this answer to upset people, but I have to be realistic here. The idea of one perfect person for you is fantasy. It would mean that every couple ever in history has ended up with "the one." Though, it's all about finding someone that you are compatible with. There is no perfect person, and there is no perfect relationship. Find someone with the same faith and vision for their lives that you have. Finding the one means trusting and knowing yourself and what you're looking for. Think of it as two people running in a race. Don't speed up or slow down to meet someone - Find someone running at your pace. There is a good/right person out there for you. If you look and don't compromise, you'll find someone that can be "the one" for you_ Quoted