Why are so many women so quick to call a guy boring?

This featured on the most-asked question on 

(psychologytoday.com)

Firstly, it depends on what you define as boring! 

What is your definition of boring? Obviously what I 

call boring isn't what you call boring, and the ordinance of activities isn't proof of a lack of 

boredom.

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I can still partake in certain activities and still be bored. For example, reading a ponytail, or a romantic novel is very boring to me, but to a lady, it may not be. 

For a lady, a guy playing video games or just games, in general, may be tagged as boring, but to him, it's not.

Having laid this emphasis, boredom can be seen as "activities that two persons cannot partake in, or activity that is more to the likeness of one than the other.

But if we intend to reduce boredom in our relationships, we'll have to compromise.

I may not like reading ponytails novels or romantic novels, but because my partner is interested in such things, we could read them together, or better still she reads it out loud and I listen, and then we share our opinions on what we *feel and think* or better still ask ourselves questions!. 

And also the other way for me, I like video games and playing together, than only me playing will ease a lot of boredom. I could probably go easy on her on the first few games, or let her win. It's all part of the fun, she gets to say she beat me in my game!

In everything, it all comes down to the willingness to want to make the relationship better. Improving the lives of each other.